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Laboratory for Advancing Dispute Resolution Skills

From the Dispute Resolution Institute at Mitchell Hamline School of Law

The Big Party

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Resources > The Big Party

Duration: 1 hour (includes time for debrief)

NextGen: No 

Teaching Notes: Yes

Skills: ADR | Negotiation 

Skill Levels: Basic 

Type of Resources: Simulation 

Subjects: ADR | Negotiation 

Modality: Both Online and In-Person

Participants: unlimited

The Big Party 

Jim Hilbert 

 

This is a simple negotiation scenario designed for junior high and high school students to learn how to prepare for a negotiation. The scenario puts the students in the position of an upcoming negotiation with Mom, who has grounded them for two months. There are two weeks remaining on the sentence, and a big party is approaching. The student must prepare for a negotiation with Mom to try to convince her to let the student attend the party, notwithstanding the grounding. The exercise includes worksheets for identifying the interests of both parties (students and Mom) and for brainstorming possible ideas that could be part of an agreement.

The Big Party: Overview (PDF)

The Big Party: Instructor Notes & Background (PDF)

The Big Party: Brainstorming Ideas Worksheet (PDF)

The Big Party: Directions (PDF)

The Big Party: Interests Worksheet (PDF)

 

Laboratory for Advancing Dispute Resolution Skills Teaching

Dispute Resolution Insitute at Mitchell Hamline School of law

875 Summit Avenue, Saint Paul, MN 55105-3076 | dri@mitchellhamline.edu

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